Episode 72: ALL The Things I Didn't Know!
PSYCH I DON’T TALK ABOUT ANY OF THEM!! NON-NEGOTIABLE!!!COMPARTMENTALIZATION!!! DISILLUSION!!! COOL, LET'S GOOOO!!!! MAKE NO SUDDEN MOVES!!! LOTS OF CHANGE!!! THE DOBLER-DAHMER THEORY!! SIMPLICITY OVER EVERYTHING!!! I’M NOT CRYING YOU’RE CRYING!!! THE SAME 4 WALLS!!! & I’m back this time for good.
Excerpt from the Episode:
“Ahhh yes, well we are back again and once more I have very little good to say. I have been in this holding pattern. Remember way back when I used to say something a lot? Make no sudden moves. Well, sometimes that’s true. And sometimes you just have to walk out of a party and blow your relationship up real quick. And no I’m not kidding and that was not a metaphor. This new year rang in with yet another disintegration, or we’ll let’s say the dissolution of yet another relationship that wasn’t working. I remember making a sidewinding joke at some point early on in this show, about how man am I so good at so many things, so effortlessly. Relationships are not one of them. Hell if I know how love works. I mean I started this show as some epic quest, to figure out who I was, and how I moved through the complicated and difficult world of sex love, and romance. And I can solidly say, I have absolutely as little clarity now, as I did then. So I think it’s time I made a couple of things very clear. Some non-negotiables I use to navigate this stormy water. And at least for myself, get really crystal clear on some things that are unequivocal deal breakers. Ok number one, you have to actually like me. I’m not talking about the beginning of relationships rose-colored glasses. I’m talking about when I’m having a dark week, you have to actually like me when I’m not on my game, feeling myself, flying high. You have to like me, all of it, you have to be able to take the dirty dishes with the lingerie. So to speak.
And if there isn’t that, if that’s not what we’re doing here then I’m out. Then I don’t want anything to do with it. If you can’t see how great I am outside of the ebb and flow of life, then why would I want it?
Alright so more on that after this brief musical interlude, and I can’t promise it will be particularly uplifting but I can say it will be beautiful. Here are a couple of songs I’ve had on repeat in my mind in my car in my life lately.”
